The law of attraction is based on positive thoughts and intentions
but it is difficult, if not impossible to find or manifest the things you
really want if you do not love and respect yourself because negative emotion
will be present.
Learning to accept yourself as you are and to be grateful for who you
are the first steps towards taking control of your thoughts and finding the
positives in everything.
How can we learn to love
ourselves unconditionally? The first
step is to be grateful for who you are right now.
Being grateful for who you are is
the start to being able to accept your strengths and weaknesses and see them as
part of the completely wonderful, lovable person you are.
The next step is to recognize
that happiness does not come from anyone or anything outside of you because you
know and accept that you are already a successful, happy person. No one can take away your happiness or the
love you have for yourself. This frees you from worry, doubt and fear because
no matter what happens, at the end of each day you love yourself unconditionally.
When you get to the point of
being able to love yourself, your relationships will begin to transform. You
will not need to be in a relationship to find love because you already have all
you need within yourself. Instead, you will begin giving away love to people
without needing or expecting anything in return.
Conflicts will fade away because
you have the confidence to not only accept yourself but to accept your partner
and friends for who they are. You begin
to manifest the type of relationships you have always wanted.
When you love yourself, it is
easier to find the positive in others and in situations. It will help you stay
focused on the positive outcomes you want for your life and you will find
gratitude easier to practice as well. It
will be easier to spend more time reflecting, meditating, and visualizing
because you are already in a happy place.
Consider doing nice things that
you would do for others for yourself.
Treat yourself with the same love and respect you show to others. Daily affirmations are another good way to
remind yourself of everything you love about who you are and those things that
you accept about yourself. Learning to
love yourself is the foundation for finding true happiness, joy and peace.
